Comments on: An Advice Goddess Valentine on PJTV

By: Marie Claude

Marie Claude — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 17:28:31 +0000

umm, I expect “true advices’ to “true dilemnes”

By: kate

kate — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 01:29:13 +0000

What do you consider to be the three biggest red flags when starting a relationship and the three best indicators that a relationship is likely to be successful?

By: Raymond

Raymond — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 22:25:56 +0000

I am a divorced non custodial father who pays child support as well as half the cost of child care, private school, music lessions, and sports. I live pay check to pay check.

When dating I receive compliments on my contribution to my child’s wellfare. However, when these women find out that these contributions leave me financially surviving but not thriving they don’t want a second date. Most have told me that is it the money issue – all my extra money goes to the child – and there is nothing to spend on the ladies. They all want to travel over seas and have me pay for it.

Many times I am told how wonderful I am but without a fat wallet I am not relationship material.

It is ironic that I am a “liberal” supporter of equal rights for women, but the women whose equality I have lent my support to just want more of my money since I am the man. That does not sound very equal.

Of course in 7 years my child will be an adult and on her own leaving me an old man in my 50’s with a fat wad of cash on hand. Seven years from now how much money will it take to pruchase a woman?

Currently they are for sale (will have a relationship with me) for 3 weeks in Thailand and/or 2 weeks in Hawaii a year. The last date wanted a new house on the hillside overlooking the ocean. Current market makes that a $750,000 investment well out of my abilities to afford.

By: Paul -Indiana

Paul -Indiana — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 21:35:23 +0000

#13. Church groups.

By: S. Cooper

S. Cooper — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 16:14:36 +0000

Typewriter_King:

Man, don’t do that to those kids. That is low.

Take it from someone who’s mother always had some “nice uncle” hanging around who either a) wanted nothing to do with us and took our mom’s time away from us and made us feel unloved or b) was nice to us and got our hopes up that he would be our new dad. That’s the way kids’ minds work. Don’t do it to them if you have no intention of being a father figure to them and just want to get into Mom’s pants.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 12:28:00 +0000

Where is the best place too look for nice girls/women? (Besides PJM)

By: Craig

Craig — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 12:25:45 +0000

If I divorce my wife, will she still be my sister?

By: Typewriter_King

Typewriter_King — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 09:54:09 +0000

Oops! Double post! Sorry!

By: Typewriter_King

Typewriter_King — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 09:53:15 +0000

I don’t know how to phrase my concerns as a specific question, but I have a question about pursuing a young single mother from the perspective of a young man that is smitten for the single mom, but is apprehensive about relating with her kids.

OK, I think I have a precise question. Can it work without becoming the New Dad? Is it possible to have a good long-term relationship with the woman and just be thought of by the kids as the nice uncle that stays around too much?

By: Typewriter_King

Typewriter_King — Wed, 04 Feb 2009 09:50:37 +0000