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		<title>By: Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/ask-dr-helen-can-a-man-be-raped-by-a-woman/comment-page-11/#comment-425059</link>
		<dc:creator>Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 23:45:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;...trolling a dead horse for a year after the horse died is simultaneously one of the most pathetic “endeavors” I’ve ever heard of a human undertaking..&lt;/em&gt;

Yeah?  So what are &lt;strong&gt;you&lt;/strong&gt; doing here, Jim Landrith?

&lt;em&gt;The cherry on the top is that I’ve read what I wanted of the thread...&lt;/em&gt;

Nope, the real cherry on top is that I get to sentence a douchebag-excuse for a &#039;man&#039; like you to a lifetime of trying to rationalize your stupid behavior.

I&#039;m tearing up your man-card, Jim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8230;trolling a dead horse for a year after the horse died is simultaneously one of the most pathetic “endeavors” I’ve ever heard of a human undertaking..</em></p>
<p>Yeah?  So what are <strong>you</strong> doing here, Jim Landrith?</p>
<p><em>The cherry on the top is that I’ve read what I wanted of the thread&#8230;</em></p>
<p>Nope, the real cherry on top is that I get to sentence a douchebag-excuse for a &#8216;man&#8217; like you to a lifetime of trying to rationalize your stupid behavior.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m tearing up your man-card, Jim.</p>
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		<title>By: Man in Disbelief</title>
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		<dc:creator>Man in Disbelief</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 05:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You all sicken me. If you for one second think it&#039;s impossible for a man to be raped by a woman you are not only biased but foolish and inconsiderate. To see other men let alone women to whom I&#039;ve thought more comfortable to confide in for their sympathetic and nurturing nature I am almost appalled that you would deny so much as the possibility. Let me say this, Men aren&#039;t sex craved muscle-heads...not all of them, I was raped, or what I&#039;d like get &quot;drunken sex&quot;. I didn&#039;t report it either, for the exact reason, I didn&#039;t think anyone would believe me, let alone would they consider it rape.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You all sicken me. If you for one second think it&#8217;s impossible for a man to be raped by a woman you are not only biased but foolish and inconsiderate. To see other men let alone women to whom I&#8217;ve thought more comfortable to confide in for their sympathetic and nurturing nature I am almost appalled that you would deny so much as the possibility. Let me say this, Men aren&#8217;t sex craved muscle-heads&#8230;not all of them, I was raped, or what I&#8217;d like get &#8220;drunken sex&#8221;. I didn&#8217;t report it either, for the exact reason, I didn&#8217;t think anyone would believe me, let alone would they consider it rape.</p>
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		<title>By: Tenacioustroll</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tenacioustroll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 08:35:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jun 30, 2008 - 4:25 am Timestamp of Little Bow Wow&#039;s first post
Oct 1, 2009 - 6:04 am Timestamp of Little Bow Wow&#039;s most recent post, which happens to be more than a year after the bulk of the posts weren&#039;t by Little Bow Wow.

I gotta say, trolling a dead horse for a year after the horse died is simultaneously one of the most pathetic &quot;endeavors&quot; I&#039;ve ever heard of a human undertaking, and also in a way sort of impressive, as dating back to Usenet I don&#039;t think that I&#039;ve ever read a thread that got trolled even 6 months after it largely died out.  For being so pitifully triumphant, I award you one internetz.  
I gotta tell you Snoop, I think the DUmmies and KosKids must be missing your Obamanaut content(if your posts can be associated with that word in anything but the loosest sense), for your next &quot;endeavor&quot; you might consider trying to get on this site ( http://dummiefunnies.blogspot.com/ ) once you head back over to democratic underground.

By the way, I know that drive-by postings are considered low blows in internet etiquette, but why not when you know that the recipient is both deserving and pathetic enough that it is a near certainty that they will see said drive by despite it being posted on a dead thread.  The cherry on the top is that I&#039;ve read what I wanted of the thread, so there&#039;s not any point in coming back to read the vitriol that you no doubt consider pithy wit, soon to be posted after your pathetic self comes back to check on your bookmarked dead thread.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jun 30, 2008 &#8211; 4:25 am Timestamp of Little Bow Wow&#8217;s first post<br />
Oct 1, 2009 &#8211; 6:04 am Timestamp of Little Bow Wow&#8217;s most recent post, which happens to be more than a year after the bulk of the posts weren&#8217;t by Little Bow Wow.</p>
<p>I gotta say, trolling a dead horse for a year after the horse died is simultaneously one of the most pathetic &#8220;endeavors&#8221; I&#8217;ve ever heard of a human undertaking, and also in a way sort of impressive, as dating back to Usenet I don&#8217;t think that I&#8217;ve ever read a thread that got trolled even 6 months after it largely died out.  For being so pitifully triumphant, I award you one internetz.<br />
I gotta tell you Snoop, I think the DUmmies and KosKids must be missing your Obamanaut content(if your posts can be associated with that word in anything but the loosest sense), for your next &#8220;endeavor&#8221; you might consider trying to get on this site ( <a href="http://dummiefunnies.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://dummiefunnies.blogspot.com/</a> ) once you head back over to democratic underground.</p>
<p>By the way, I know that drive-by postings are considered low blows in internet etiquette, but why not when you know that the recipient is both deserving and pathetic enough that it is a near certainty that they will see said drive by despite it being posted on a dead thread.  The cherry on the top is that I&#8217;ve read what I wanted of the thread, so there&#8217;s not any point in coming back to read the vitriol that you no doubt consider pithy wit, soon to be posted after your pathetic self comes back to check on your bookmarked dead thread.</p>
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		<title>By: Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 13:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;A marine who was taught honour and respect who realizes he can’t drive and sees a PREGNANT woman in need help is showing responsibility.&quot;

And please, for the love of &lt;em&gt;God&lt;/em&gt;, Tania.  I&#039;m embarrassed for you as a (presumably) woman for your naïveté.  Are American women actually as stupid as you would have us believe?

Jimmy &quot;Hardwood&quot; Landrith didn&#039;t give a rat&#039;s ass about this defenseless (and drunk) &quot;PREGNANT woman in need help&quot;.  Here&#039;s some badly needed education for your generation of females (and Dr. Helen, apparently) about how the male mind works.

Jim Landrith was a 20-something single guy out for drinks with his buds.  No harm in that.  He encounters a semi-attractive and CLEARLY PREGNANT woman, who for some unknown reason (but who cares?), paid attention to him.

When it got late an she pulled the Scarlett O&#039;Hara &quot;whatever shall I DO?&quot; routine, he graciously volunteered to guard her sacred virtue *cough* in some cheap, sweaty motel room.

Tania, James Landith is no different than most men, including myself.  He saw an opportunity for an easy, no-risk &#039;lay&#039;, and he went for it.  Bonus: she&#039;s ALREADY PREGNANT, so guess what?  You can do ANYTHING YOU WANT WITH HER!  No &#039;bag&#039; required!

Shocking, I know.  But someone had to tell you the truth about men.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;A marine who was taught honour and respect who realizes he can’t drive and sees a PREGNANT woman in need help is showing responsibility.&#8221;</p>
<p>And please, for the love of <em>God</em>, Tania.  I&#8217;m embarrassed for you as a (presumably) woman for your naïveté.  Are American women actually as stupid as you would have us believe?</p>
<p>Jimmy &#8220;Hardwood&#8221; Landrith didn&#8217;t give a rat&#8217;s ass about this defenseless (and drunk) &#8220;PREGNANT woman in need help&#8221;.  Here&#8217;s some badly needed education for your generation of females (and Dr. Helen, apparently) about how the male mind works.</p>
<p>Jim Landrith was a 20-something single guy out for drinks with his buds.  No harm in that.  He encounters a semi-attractive and CLEARLY PREGNANT woman, who for some unknown reason (but who cares?), paid attention to him.</p>
<p>When it got late an she pulled the Scarlett O&#8217;Hara &#8220;whatever shall I DO?&#8221; routine, he graciously volunteered to guard her sacred virtue *cough* in some cheap, sweaty motel room.</p>
<p>Tania, James Landith is no different than most men, including myself.  He saw an opportunity for an easy, no-risk &#8216;lay&#8217;, and he went for it.  Bonus: she&#8217;s ALREADY PREGNANT, so guess what?  You can do ANYTHING YOU WANT WITH HER!  No &#8216;bag&#8217; required!</p>
<p>Shocking, I know.  But someone had to tell you the truth about men.</p>
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		<title>By: Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 14:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;For all you know, had she not stayed in a hotel room with him, she may have been raped herself or even worse.&lt;/em&gt;

Good grief, talk about rationalizing bad behavior.  And I couldn&#039;t care less who you sympathize with, just don&#039;t expect me to &#039;roll over&#039; when you claim this loser was raped.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>For all you know, had she not stayed in a hotel room with him, she may have been raped herself or even worse.</em></p>
<p>Good grief, talk about rationalizing bad behavior.  And I couldn&#8217;t care less who you sympathize with, just don&#8217;t expect me to &#8216;roll over&#8217; when you claim this loser was raped.</p>
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		<title>By: Tania</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tania</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 04:34:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Snoop, you have a bad habit of comparing apples and oranges. Somebody getting drunk and choosing to drive a car is irresponsible and endangering lives. A marine who was taught honour and respect who realizes he can&#039;t drive and sees a PREGNANT woman in need help is showing responsibility. 

For all you know, had she not stayed in a hotel room with him, she may have been raped herself or even worse. 

Finally, if you don&#039;t feel like giving him your sympathy then don&#039;t. But last time I checked you weren&#039;t my father and you can&#039;t tell me who I can or cannot sympathize for. Nor can you tell anyone else here not to sympathize with him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Snoop, you have a bad habit of comparing apples and oranges. Somebody getting drunk and choosing to drive a car is irresponsible and endangering lives. A marine who was taught honour and respect who realizes he can&#8217;t drive and sees a PREGNANT woman in need help is showing responsibility. </p>
<p>For all you know, had she not stayed in a hotel room with him, she may have been raped herself or even worse. </p>
<p>Finally, if you don&#8217;t feel like giving him your sympathy then don&#8217;t. But last time I checked you weren&#8217;t my father and you can&#8217;t tell me who I can or cannot sympathize for. Nor can you tell anyone else here not to sympathize with him.</p>
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		<title>By: Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 17:10:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s something Jim Landrith might appreciate:

&lt;em&gt;Description of incident: while on leave SVM and a friend, USN E-4 from a different command, went to a night club, where they met two females. SVM and friend agreed to meet the females at a breakfast restaurant after the nightclub closed, at approximately 0230l. After meeting at restaurant SVM and friend agreed, at the suggestion of the two females, to go a nearby hotel to spend the remainder of the evening.  Once at the hotel, SVM observed the two females text messaging in their car for a short period of time before they agreed to go up to the hotel room. As SVM entered the room, the alleged offenders pushed SVM and friend into the room at gun point. Females sat on the bed as the alleged offenders ordered SVM and friend to lay on the floor, faced down. Alleged offenders proceeded to rob SVM and friend of both wallets, including military identification and social security cards, all jewelry, cell phones, and car keys. Total value of property taken from SVM is approx 6000 USD. After offenders and female accomplices left, SVM notified Police.&lt;/em&gt;

Sound like anyone you know?  Did these two you goofballs DESERVE what happened to them?

My crystal ball says, &quot;no&quot;.  But when guys think with their peckers they ALWAYS get in trouble.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s something Jim Landrith might appreciate:</p>
<p><em>Description of incident: while on leave SVM and a friend, USN E-4 from a different command, went to a night club, where they met two females. SVM and friend agreed to meet the females at a breakfast restaurant after the nightclub closed, at approximately 0230l. After meeting at restaurant SVM and friend agreed, at the suggestion of the two females, to go a nearby hotel to spend the remainder of the evening.  Once at the hotel, SVM observed the two females text messaging in their car for a short period of time before they agreed to go up to the hotel room. As SVM entered the room, the alleged offenders pushed SVM and friend into the room at gun point. Females sat on the bed as the alleged offenders ordered SVM and friend to lay on the floor, faced down. Alleged offenders proceeded to rob SVM and friend of both wallets, including military identification and social security cards, all jewelry, cell phones, and car keys. Total value of property taken from SVM is approx 6000 USD. After offenders and female accomplices left, SVM notified Police.</em></p>
<p>Sound like anyone you know?  Did these two you goofballs DESERVE what happened to them?</p>
<p>My crystal ball says, &#8220;no&#8221;.  But when guys think with their peckers they ALWAYS get in trouble.</p>
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		<title>By: Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2009 02:57:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well Penwolf, unfortunately your comment makes me ashamed of you, so &lt;strong&gt;there&lt;/strong&gt;.  And if you had a sense of shame, you&#039;d be ashamed of yourself, as well.

I don&#039;t think anyone has suggested that he deserved what happened (if indeed it happened at all).  I guess drunk drunk drivers don&#039;t really &lt;em&gt;deserve&lt;/em&gt; to slam into tractor-trailers at 100 mph.  But the fact that they do isn&#039;t going to make me lose any sleep.

Your unfortunate friend was drugged in a social gathering and raped by people she knew.  James Landrith got himself sloshed and then got a hotel room with a total stranger.  That&#039;s just stupid.  And please don&#039;t &lt;em&gt;blah-blah&lt;/em&gt; me again with &quot;he didn&#039;t deserve it&quot;.  Who cares?  My mom didn&#039;t deserve cancer.  New York didn&#039;t deserve to be attacked on 9/11.  My neighbor didn&#039;t deserve to be laid off.  So what?

Stupid unfortunate things frequently happen to stupid irresponsible people like James Landrith.  It&#039;s just how the world works.

You may now return to your regularly scheduled superiority complex.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well Penwolf, unfortunately your comment makes me ashamed of you, so <strong>there</strong>.  And if you had a sense of shame, you&#8217;d be ashamed of yourself, as well.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think anyone has suggested that he deserved what happened (if indeed it happened at all).  I guess drunk drunk drivers don&#8217;t really <em>deserve</em> to slam into tractor-trailers at 100 mph.  But the fact that they do isn&#8217;t going to make me lose any sleep.</p>
<p>Your unfortunate friend was drugged in a social gathering and raped by people she knew.  James Landrith got himself sloshed and then got a hotel room with a total stranger.  That&#8217;s just stupid.  And please don&#8217;t <em>blah-blah</em> me again with &#8220;he didn&#8217;t deserve it&#8221;.  Who cares?  My mom didn&#8217;t deserve cancer.  New York didn&#8217;t deserve to be attacked on 9/11.  My neighbor didn&#8217;t deserve to be laid off.  So what?</p>
<p>Stupid unfortunate things frequently happen to stupid irresponsible people like James Landrith.  It&#8217;s just how the world works.</p>
<p>You may now return to your regularly scheduled superiority complex.</p>
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		<title>By: Penwolf.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Penwolf.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 21:47:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I honestly can&#039;t believe most of the comments on this article, it only goes to show that men are just as pigeonholed by sexism as women are. Yes, some men cry and get emotionally traumatized, having a penis does not block your tear ducts, men and women are both human individuals. 
Rape of either sex does not have to involve physical force, just as not all abuse is physical. I have a friend who was a straight A student, class president, captain of the soccer team, who went to a friends party and her 
(abusive)boyfriend at the time, drugged her drink. They took her upstairs, stripped her, raped her and took several indecent photos of her. He later used the photos to manipulate her for her silence and for further sexual favors. It can happen to anyone if they let their guard down, do not underestimate how cruel, and manipulative these people can get. And yes, it can happen to both men and women.

Just because he was drunk does NOT mean that he *deserved* it. It was stupid, yes, but no one, no matter how the dress or if the are drunk, high, whatever, deserves it. If the victim is drunk or not, they are still a victim, rape is still a crime. 

Honestly, some of these comments make me ashamed of humanity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I honestly can&#8217;t believe most of the comments on this article, it only goes to show that men are just as pigeonholed by sexism as women are. Yes, some men cry and get emotionally traumatized, having a penis does not block your tear ducts, men and women are both human individuals.<br />
Rape of either sex does not have to involve physical force, just as not all abuse is physical. I have a friend who was a straight A student, class president, captain of the soccer team, who went to a friends party and her<br />
(abusive)boyfriend at the time, drugged her drink. They took her upstairs, stripped her, raped her and took several indecent photos of her. He later used the photos to manipulate her for her silence and for further sexual favors. It can happen to anyone if they let their guard down, do not underestimate how cruel, and manipulative these people can get. And yes, it can happen to both men and women.</p>
<p>Just because he was drunk does NOT mean that he *deserved* it. It was stupid, yes, but no one, no matter how the dress or if the are drunk, high, whatever, deserves it. If the victim is drunk or not, they are still a victim, rape is still a crime. </p>
<p>Honestly, some of these comments make me ashamed of humanity.</p>
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		<title>By: Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Snoop-Diggity-DANG-Dawg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 18:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Larry, the fact that he was intoxicated means he&#039;s an irresponsible moron.

You don&#039;t like being &quot;raped&quot;?  Here&#039;s a suggestion: don&#039;t get slobbering drunk and share hotel rooms with total strangers.

Is that too radical a concept for you?  Too much responsibility for you to handle?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Larry, the fact that he was intoxicated means he&#8217;s an irresponsible moron.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t like being &#8220;raped&#8221;?  Here&#8217;s a suggestion: don&#8217;t get slobbering drunk and share hotel rooms with total strangers.</p>
<p>Is that too radical a concept for you?  Too much responsibility for you to handle?</p>
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