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		<title>By: Believer</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/is-too-much-happiness-a-bad-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-43036</link>
		<dc:creator>Believer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 21:25:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eric Wilson quotes Keats:

&quot;Do you not see how necessary a World of Pains and troubles is to school an Intelligence and make it a Soul?&quot;

This reflects an understanding of the words of One even greater:

&quot;Blessed are you who weep and mourn...&quot; 

If you are hurting - and it makes no sense to you - put every effort into understanding this mystery. It is your very salvation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eric Wilson quotes Keats:</p>
<p>&#8220;Do you not see how necessary a World of Pains and troubles is to school an Intelligence and make it a Soul?&#8221;</p>
<p>This reflects an understanding of the words of One even greater:</p>
<p>&#8220;Blessed are you who weep and mourn&#8230;&#8221; </p>
<p>If you are hurting &#8211; and it makes no sense to you &#8211; put every effort into understanding this mystery. It is your very salvation.</p>
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		<title>By: Believer</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/is-too-much-happiness-a-bad-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-42979</link>
		<dc:creator>Believer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 19:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe our Creator is continually reaching out to us. Trying to get our attention. He whispers to us at first, then more audibly if we ignore Him. Sometimes He must shout. Because He loves us.

Often it takes a real setback - a tragedy sometimes - for man to stop his advance toward destruction. For him to realize he is not God, and that his will should yield to His. But, sadly, some still refuse to hear.

If man would pause often enough in his life to hear His calling - to be taught by Him - he might avoid much sadness. 

A life of faith is not one without trouble - for such is the product of imperfect man in an imperfect world - but it is one of joy, despite one&#039;s circumstances. The healing has begun.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe our Creator is continually reaching out to us. Trying to get our attention. He whispers to us at first, then more audibly if we ignore Him. Sometimes He must shout. Because He loves us.</p>
<p>Often it takes a real setback &#8211; a tragedy sometimes &#8211; for man to stop his advance toward destruction. For him to realize he is not God, and that his will should yield to His. But, sadly, some still refuse to hear.</p>
<p>If man would pause often enough in his life to hear His calling &#8211; to be taught by Him &#8211; he might avoid much sadness. </p>
<p>A life of faith is not one without trouble &#8211; for such is the product of imperfect man in an imperfect world &#8211; but it is one of joy, despite one&#8217;s circumstances. The healing has begun.</p>
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		<title>By: tanstaafl</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/is-too-much-happiness-a-bad-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-42758</link>
		<dc:creator>tanstaafl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 13:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You might want to believe that the human soul was made for joy, not guilt, not suffering.

You might want to take a hint from a baby or a small child who knows nothing of the tragedies and travesties of the world.

It seems to me that those tragedies are more common today, either because they, in fact, are with the ongoing crowding of the planet (and can thus be expected to become moreso) or because the 24/7 news cycle constantly pounds them into our consciousness.

Focusing on negativity is not healthy state for a being designed to be joyful (if you accept that premise)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You might want to believe that the human soul was made for joy, not guilt, not suffering.</p>
<p>You might want to take a hint from a baby or a small child who knows nothing of the tragedies and travesties of the world.</p>
<p>It seems to me that those tragedies are more common today, either because they, in fact, are with the ongoing crowding of the planet (and can thus be expected to become moreso) or because the 24/7 news cycle constantly pounds them into our consciousness.</p>
<p>Focusing on negativity is not healthy state for a being designed to be joyful (if you accept that premise)</p>
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		<title>By: Believer</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/is-too-much-happiness-a-bad-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-42522</link>
		<dc:creator>Believer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 05:12:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just as the body signals its distress, so the soul tells when it needs tending.

Rather than reject the pain, embrace it. Consider it a blessing.  

Do the unthinkable. Trust the One who&#039;s created you. The ultimate healer. 

You&#039;ll know His work. The heart changes. You become less and He becomes more. You count yourself less and your fellow man more.

And looking back, you&#039;ll give thanks. That pain - a faint memory now - was a treasured gift from God.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just as the body signals its distress, so the soul tells when it needs tending.</p>
<p>Rather than reject the pain, embrace it. Consider it a blessing.  </p>
<p>Do the unthinkable. Trust the One who&#8217;s created you. The ultimate healer. </p>
<p>You&#8217;ll know His work. The heart changes. You become less and He becomes more. You count yourself less and your fellow man more.</p>
<p>And looking back, you&#8217;ll give thanks. That pain &#8211; a faint memory now &#8211; was a treasured gift from God.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/is-too-much-happiness-a-bad-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-42427</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 01:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The author asks &quot;Are we to believe that four out of every five Americans can be content amidst the terrible suffering of our world, the poverty and the violence, the war and failure?&quot;
  
In short, the answer is yes.
  
Let me give you an example: this morning&#039;s news headlined a situation in Florida where several men died when refrigerant leaked from a faulty container.  Friends and family will grieve,  others peripherally involved will be momentarily made aware of their own mortality.  For the rest of the viewing audience the response was undoubtedly something on the order of &quot;Damn that&#039;s a shame...  honey, have you seen my socks?&quot;

That is as it should be.  A rational human being knows that not every tragedy or injustice can be internalized, leastwise, not and retain one&#039;s sanity.  Life goes on, and just because someone died in Florida, or China, or some godforsaken hole in Africa, does not mean that we must feel guilty because we laugh and joke, or hold our grandchildren in our arms, and feel reasonably content with our lot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The author asks &#8220;Are we to believe that four out of every five Americans can be content amidst the terrible suffering of our world, the poverty and the violence, the war and failure?&#8221;</p>
<p>In short, the answer is yes.</p>
<p>Let me give you an example: this morning&#8217;s news headlined a situation in Florida where several men died when refrigerant leaked from a faulty container.  Friends and family will grieve,  others peripherally involved will be momentarily made aware of their own mortality.  For the rest of the viewing audience the response was undoubtedly something on the order of &#8220;Damn that&#8217;s a shame&#8230;  honey, have you seen my socks?&#8221;</p>
<p>That is as it should be.  A rational human being knows that not every tragedy or injustice can be internalized, leastwise, not and retain one&#8217;s sanity.  Life goes on, and just because someone died in Florida, or China, or some godforsaken hole in Africa, does not mean that we must feel guilty because we laugh and joke, or hold our grandchildren in our arms, and feel reasonably content with our lot.</p>
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		<title>By: Gerald Arcuri</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/is-too-much-happiness-a-bad-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-42369</link>
		<dc:creator>Gerald Arcuri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 23:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Martin Luther King Jr. is quoted as having said that injustice anywhere threatens justice everywhere. With all the suffering that there is in the world, I find it difficult to comprehend how anyone can truly enjoy unruffled &quot;happiness&quot;. Those fortunate enough to have been born into kind circumstances, whose health has been relatively unmarred, and who have never experienced major accidental trauma or organized political repression must nevertheless bear some psychological burden on behalf of those who have not been so fortunate. To expect to be able to live in unalloyed bliss while those who are only separated from us by accidents of space and time suffer unimaginably seems to me the height of denial and narcissism. The world just isn&#039;t constructed in that way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Martin Luther King Jr. is quoted as having said that injustice anywhere threatens justice everywhere. With all the suffering that there is in the world, I find it difficult to comprehend how anyone can truly enjoy unruffled &#8220;happiness&#8221;. Those fortunate enough to have been born into kind circumstances, whose health has been relatively unmarred, and who have never experienced major accidental trauma or organized political repression must nevertheless bear some psychological burden on behalf of those who have not been so fortunate. To expect to be able to live in unalloyed bliss while those who are only separated from us by accidents of space and time suffer unimaginably seems to me the height of denial and narcissism. The world just isn&#8217;t constructed in that way.</p>
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		<title>By: valle</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/is-too-much-happiness-a-bad-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-41808</link>
		<dc:creator>valle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 03:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you need to know sadness to know true happiness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you need to know sadness to know true happiness.</p>
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		<title>By: WhoStruckJohn</title>
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		<dc:creator>WhoStruckJohn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 00:15:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Huxley is right.  This is fatuous at best.  While adversity tests one&#039;s character, that hardly makes rough patches something that we should look forward to.

If you&#039;re sooooo worried about not having any rough patches, I&#039;ll lend you mine!  No charge!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Huxley is right.  This is fatuous at best.  While adversity tests one&#8217;s character, that hardly makes rough patches something that we should look forward to.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re sooooo worried about not having any rough patches, I&#8217;ll lend you mine!  No charge!!</p>
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		<title>By: Believer</title>
		<link>http://pajamasmedia.com/blog/is-too-much-happiness-a-bad-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-41441</link>
		<dc:creator>Believer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 14:59:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The author&#039;s point is an excellent one. 

Man has pretty much mastered self-medication. Alcoholics, drug addicts - even shopaholics - abound. We look to numb our feelings rather than explore the source of our discontent. And so we never heal. And far too often, we leave a trail of other lives destroyed as we go about avoiding the truth.

Instead of turning our thoughts inward and upward, searching for what might make sense of &quot;what should not be&quot; in our lives, we look for answers in the world or from our fellow fallen man. And it appears the scientist is once again stepping in to offer his solution.

There&#039;s almost a shallowness to the sound of &quot;happiness&quot; - is the heart involved? Or is there a deep and abiding &quot;joy&quot; that we might have instead - no matter our circumstances.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The author&#8217;s point is an excellent one. </p>
<p>Man has pretty much mastered self-medication. Alcoholics, drug addicts &#8211; even shopaholics &#8211; abound. We look to numb our feelings rather than explore the source of our discontent. And so we never heal. And far too often, we leave a trail of other lives destroyed as we go about avoiding the truth.</p>
<p>Instead of turning our thoughts inward and upward, searching for what might make sense of &#8220;what should not be&#8221; in our lives, we look for answers in the world or from our fellow fallen man. And it appears the scientist is once again stepping in to offer his solution.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s almost a shallowness to the sound of &#8220;happiness&#8221; &#8211; is the heart involved? Or is there a deep and abiding &#8220;joy&#8221; that we might have instead &#8211; no matter our circumstances.</p>
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		<title>By: Sue</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 14:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I need a definitive definition of:  happy!  Your happy may be different from mine.  But, I must agree that since the majority of Americans, according to polls are on the Left, it does appear that altering your reality has its benefits!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I need a definitive definition of:  happy!  Your happy may be different from mine.  But, I must agree that since the majority of Americans, according to polls are on the Left, it does appear that altering your reality has its benefits!!</p>
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